(The letter was in response to an article by Nikki Gemmell about women switching sides….from men to women for supposedly more enjoyable and satisfying sex. It was considerably edited. Below is what was published.)
Perhaps “women know what women want”, as Nikki’s mate asserts, but what does this imply about men? That they are blissfully ignorant, maybe even selfish-yet what have women done to inform then of what they want? It could be that both women and men need more confidence to find out what is mutually pleasurable.